April 9, 2009

Treasure Hunt

I had to think of some way to get Melody to my favorite spot in the woods so I could propose to her without her suspecting anything beforehand. I wanted to surprise her. In the end, she surprised me!

I figured the easiest way to catch Melody unsuspectingly would be to guise my proposal in a treasure hunt for my little brother Joseph’s 8th birthday, only two days away. So a’ treasure hunting we all went—all of us. Joseph was excited—I was excited! And Melody didn’t suspect a thing! All of the Detwiler’s in Akron came out for the treasure hunt and the whole Sprague family came too, even Joseph’s friend Benjamin came.

Joseph's Team

Joseph's Team

We split up into teams and set out into the damp and shivery woods—a list of treasures to find in hand.

The List

The List

It wasn’t too long before Melody and I were at the top of the hill “looking” for acorns for the treasure hunt. Kenan and Martin were somewhere down below circling through the woods like two lost soldiers (they wore camouflage for some reason). We walked around on the hill top chatting. Then Melody noticed my guitar lying at the base of a big tree. “Somebody left their guitar in the woods” she exclaimed! “I tricked you,” I said, “That’s my guitar and I’ve got a song for you…”

April 9, 2009

She Said Yes

After years of dreams, fervent prayers, late night conversations, joys, frustrations, breakthroughs, friendship, work, study, counsel, repentance, more work and more study and lots more prayer… finally it all boiled down to one simple question.

Last Friday, under a canopy of budding trees, I asked my best friend Melody Sprague to marry me. Even before I could finish the stanza in the song I sang her, Melody said, “Yes, yes, yes!” My face is permanently creased in smile of indescribable joy!

Proposal Point

Proposal Point

Oh what a precious time we had together praising God and covenanting our lives to each other for marriage. There, on that cold wet moss of “Proposal Point,” Melody and I tied the knot. Now we are searching through the calendar trying to figure out when we can get married and put super-glue on this knot that our Father in Heaven has so graciously allowed us to tie!

True Lover's Knot

True Lover's Knot


“And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
- Ecclesiastes 4:12 (ESV)

April 9, 2009

We’re Engaged!

Josiah and Melody

Josiah and Melody

Melody's Wonderful Mom

Melody's Wonderful Mom


“Let your father and mother be glad;
let her who bore you rejoice.”

- Proverbs 23:25 (ESV)

My Dear Mother

My Dear Mother

My Soon To Be Father-in-law

My Soon-to-be Father-in-law

My Hero - My Dad

My Hero - My Dad

April 9, 2009

What is Courtship?

I wrote an entry on courtship several months ago and thought it would be relevant to put a link to that entry here again.

April 9, 2009

A Special Thanks To…

A special thanks goes to all of the photographers at the park. You guys are the best!

Just a few of the happy photographers

Just a few of the happy photographers

Thank you Joseph for sharing your party with us. You are growing into a very fine young gentleman!

Joseph Turns Eight!

Joseph Turns Eight!

April 9, 2009

About the “Future” Banner

Bright Future Ahead

Bright Future Ahead

I’ll be honest, there is a little photo-shopping going on here. I took the original picture on one of the piers on Lake Erie. Elijah was with us too as you can see from the original picture below!

Over There

Over There

A special thanks goes to Jeff Meyers and his Passing the Baton newsletter for the clever “The Future” road sign picture.

March 6, 2009

A Tidbit from my Sister

Here is a great quote from my sister’s blog. I don’t think it ever crossed her mind that anyone would quote her, and that’s exactly why it’s so great.

I suppose accepting and doing the “little things in life” with joy and gladness is what the Christian life is all about.

I am away at college right now, and I havent posted anything since I came down here to Dallas in January. But I have had a good excuse for my silence; I’ve been studying like mad and enjoying it emensely! If you don’t know, I am at the Graduate Institute of Applied Linguistics (GIAL) working on an undergraduate certificate in applied linguistics. This school is amazing. It is small, intense, incredibly pratical, academically rigerous, and humbly submitted to God’s glory. The faculty and staff here are very personable and god-fearing and the students here are really encouraging and fun. Well, that’s enough of an update-attached-to-a-quote.

February 18, 2009

Veggie Tales Founder Said What?

A surprising quote from a world-renowned cartoon animator…

“The world doesn’t learn about God by watching Christian movies. The world learns about God by watching Christians.”

- Phillip Visher, Veggie Tales founder

What About Context?
To learn the context of this quote I encourage you to listen to Phil’s hard-hitting message that he delivered at the Moody Bible Institutes Founder’s Week, on Wednesday, February 4, 2009 at 10:30 am (clue, the quote is at min. 31:05).

February 2, 2009

Building Covered in Bubblegum!

GREENVILLE, OHIO – Heather, Melody and I stopped by the Maid-Rite Sandwich Shop (125 N. Broadwat St.) on our way back home from the Homeschool Alumni get-together at Alyssa’s home.

Heather and Melody in Front of the Bubblegum Covered Convient Store

Heather and Melody in Front of the Bubblegum Covered Convient Store

The building is literally COVERED IN BUBBLEGUM!

“Sounds gross, but that’s what people have been doing for years. So much so that the walls have taken on the look of a gum sculpture. No one is quite sure just how the custom started, but as they sang in Fiddler on the Roof, it’s “tradition.” Not only don’t they scrape it off, they seem to encourage it.” – Neil Zurcher

51ewzuwtgol__ss500_1I learned about this bubblegum covered building in Neil Zurcher’s book, Ohio Oddities: A Guide to the Curious Attractions of the Buckeye State. You can find Neil’s book on Amazon.com. Neil stopped by our creation science museum this summer and wrote up a paragraph about the Akron Fossils & Science Center for his Ohio Oddities book (we are on page 65 under the title Dinosaurs on Noah’s Ark?). Neil also keeps a web blog at, One Tank Trips.

The Gummy Wall!

The Gummy Wall!

Of course we couldn’t resist depositing our own blob of bubblegum so we each vigorously chewed our frozen wads of bubblegum (now frozen from being left in cold car all weekend) and creatively pasted them onto the side of the building—next to the millions of other pieces!

It was amazing to see how long some of the bubblegum blobs had been on the building, presumably for years and years, maybe even decades. Lesson to the wise: “Don’t swallow your bubblegum; even the intense rays of the sun cannot deteriorate it!”

Melody and I Looking Peace-ful

Melody and I Looking Peace-ful

December 4, 2008

Big Sis Enters Blogosphere

We are pleased to announce that our sister, Heather, has began blogging. Her website is called Joy in the Little Things. Here’s what Josiah and I have to say about our sister.

Stephen:

My sister Heather is like an ivy plant— beautiful, tender, resilient. She is the oldest child in our family, so she has been there since I was born. As I have grown up (for certain) and matured (hopefully), Heather has played an integral role in my life.

Heather is a dear friend. I don’t know how many long-into-the-night talks— deep talks, broad talks, jumping-from-subject-to-subject talks— we’ve had over the past few years. We’ve shared life, we’ve shared our hearts— our perplexities, our fears, our hopes, our dreams, our opinions, our one faith and shared vision.

Heather is an example. She is an example of meekness, of godliness, of a heart devoted to God. She has lived out this example, and she has reached out into my life. I still have notes, letters, and birthday cards that she given me… I probably have notes from my early teens to the present. These notes are deeply impressed with encouragement. Many a time, Heather has brought portions of the Scriptures to my attention, and she has done so with a gentleness and a humility that has burned deep into my soul.

Heather is a caring person. She helped care for me when I was young. And even now while I am yet living at home, she still looks out for me. She helps with our family’s laundry, she helps cook several times a week, she helps cleans the house (especially the overlooked things). She does so much, she is so much— much more than all of this.

Not that Heather doesn’t have struggles and weaknesses. This is what I so admire about Heather: she is very real, not a superwoman. But rather than trying to hide every weakness and sin, time and again I’ve seen Heather work to be transparent about her struggles. I can see God’s grace flowing in and over and through her life. I have seen that God’s grace has been sufficient for Heather, and this has encouraged me to continue to hunger and thirst after righteousness, to hold on to my faith in Christ.

Heather is like an ivy plant— beautiful, tender, resilient—and the tendrils of her love have reached deep into my heart.

Josiah:

I can attest to each of the same virtues and experiences that Stephen so poetically wrote about our sister Heather.

One godly character quality that I must say about Heather is her overflowing generosity. Heather’s generosity is demonstrated by her daily self-sacrifice to others. Heather has sacrificed her own desires to help her family members on numerous occasions, not only in the home but also in business ventures that continue on to this day. I couldn’t ask for a more devoted secretary.

I will never forget the generosity of my sister when she gave a little boy the last of her saved M&M’s when he had already gulped his own treat down many days before. I was that little boy and I (and many others) continue to experience the sweetness of Heather’s generosity on a daily basis.

Here’s a link to Heather’s blog: Joy in the Little Things

You will also find that we have added her blog to our Blogroll on the right.

December 1, 2008

To the Highways and Hedges: Part Two

—A Continuation of my Previous Story with Contributions from Matthew 22:11-14

Reclining at the table, Becher looked about him, and couldn’t keep back a silly grin; there was so much splendor and joy in this house. Guests filled the large banquet hall, all wearing their finest wedding garments. Becher had no idea where the poor and crippled and blind and lame people were, the people that the messenger had told him had been invited. The one who had opened the door to them had returned to the head of the table. He was indeed the master, for he was the king. Becher was soon told that this was the wedding feast of the king’s son. As Becher looked about, he noticed that some attendants had now entered the hall, bringing more food. They were working their way around, serving the new guests.
Becher leaned back and greeted the man next to him, “Peace, brother!”
The man smiled, but looked a bit nervous. “That’s a fine robe you have on,” the man said.
“Yes,” Becher replied. “And you’ll never believe how I came by it.” Becher’s face was only sincere now. His eyes filled with awe; it was as if he was looking past or through the man next to him. “My family and I live to the east of the city,” began Becher. “When the messenger came, the sun had just slipped behind the hills, so we set out while the first stars were beginning to shine in the east.” Becher paused and followed the other man’s gaze up the table. The servants were a little nearer now, and the smell from the good food made Becher’s belly growl with hunger. “We were about halfway to the city gates,” Becher resumed, “when we passed through an evening shower. It was odd, because I hadn’t expected rain. The rain was warm, but the wind tugged at our cloaks and shawls. Away in the distance I thought I heard some thunder. Then the rain passed, and the new moon broke out of the clouds just above the mountains. And I looked down at my clothes, to see what the rain had done to me, but instead of my old rags, I saw this wonderful garment I now wear. These are wedding clothes, I said to myself.”

Sitting with the women, Becher’s wife leaned over to the woman she had just been talking to. “I don’t know what my husband is talking about,” she said with a perplexed look on her face. Both women looked over at Becher, who was busy telling his tale to the man next to him. “He keeps saying that we passed through a gentle shower on the way to this feast,” Becher’s wife continued. “A gentle shower! It was a thunderstorm. The thunder was so loud that I thought the very rocks were going to split in two! And the lightning came all around us, and the rain came in such torrents and the wind was so strong that it felt like my clothes had been ripped off and my skin was being pulled off my bones. It wasn’t just a little rain shower that we traveled through! But just like him,” her voice softened and a faraway look entered her eyes, “when the rain passed, I found that I was dressed in this marvelous wedding garment I am wearing.” She looked down at her dress and rubbed a fold of the fabric between her fingers.
“What about you?” she said, looking up at the woman next to her. “How did you come to this wedding feast?”
The other woman delicately wiped her fingers on a cloth, and straightened the little cluster of jewels that dangled on her brow. At the door, jewels had been given to all of the guests. The light glimmered and danced all around the room. Thoughtfully the woman finished chewing a morsel of fine food. She had already been at the table when Becher and his wife had arrived.
“The messenger,” the other woman said, “came to our door, and my father answered, for my husband went to sleep with his fathers two years ago, leaving me childless. My husband had no brothers,” she added almost as an afterthought. “My father was greatly interested in the messenger’s invitation, but seeing that we are very poor, he readily confessed that we had not the proper clothes for such a feast. ‘Worry not,’ the messenger said and then proceeded on his way. And then, you’ll never believe it, but as my father turned and shut the door, the tub that we use for bathing fell over in the back room where we keep it. Wary and half afraid, I peeked into the back room, and I saw that the tub now stood upright, filled with steaming water. Seeing it as a sign, my father quickly bathed, and he came back wearing a beautiful robe. That’s him up near the head of the table, the one with the long, white beard. My father was now eager to go to the feast, but my mother was very reluctant. My brother, God help him, scoffed at my father openly, and bustled out of the house to go… oh, but that’s beside the point! My mother stood firm, saying, “I have no need of a bath, and we are not beggars that we must rely on the charity of others, even if it is the king himself!” Caught in this mayhem, I went back and stepped into the tub. It was full— a thing we never do— and very warm. Oh, that water felt good! I scrubbed and soaked and it felt like it must have been hours, but father says I took only a few minutes. When I got out, a fine robe was laying there for me also. It wasn’t there when I got in the tub, for I remember wondering what I would wear once I got out. Still my mother would not come, so we left without her. Poor mother!” The woman paused for a moment, and then said, “Before we left our home, our maid came creeping out of that back room. She had also found wedding garments waiting for her when she stepped out of the tub, so my father couldn’t help but let her come with us.” A smile flashed across the woman’s face. “She is also sitting further up the table. There, she is picking up a fig right now!”

Becher watched intently while the attendant served him piles of wonderful things he had never seen or dreamt of eating. All of a sudden, the servant stopped, and glanced over his shoulder. The music paused, and then started up again a little softer. Becher looked up, and he saw that the king had begun to walk through the hall, greeting his beaming, grateful, and amazed guests. The servant waited to finish serving him, but Becher nibbled at the food already set before him. At last the master came to greet Becher. A profound sense that he had known him for ages swept over Becher. The master threw his arms around Becher, but all he could do was whisper, “Thank you!”
The king turned to greet the man beside Becher, and Becher saw that the king’s face suddenly clouded over. Sparks of fire seemed to leap from his eyes. “Friend,” the king said to him, “how did you get in here without a wedding garment?” Becher had not noticed before then, but it was true, the man next to him had no wedding garment. He wore a dirty shirt, stained and many times mended. Dread flooded the other man’s face, and he was speechless. Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot and cast him into the outer darkness. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. For many are called, but few are chosen.”

November 25, 2008

What is Courtship?

Teaching from the positive is a powerful tool. I experienced this positive method of teaching shortly after Melody and I began courting. Melody found an article called, What is Courtship? by Bill Gothard. In his article Gothard places emphases on biblical relationships, majoring on what couples SHOULD DO to glorify God in their relationship under the oversight of God-given authority.

But Courtship Means Rules
Courtship gets a bad rep when people place all of their attention on the rules (the negative “thou shall nots”) instead of recognizing that every prohibitional rule provides a guidepost for what purposeful, positive, actions should be embraced in a commitment-based, courting relationship.

When marriage is sought out in a God-honoring way, the warnings and safeguards that courting couples place themselves under are welcomed as aides to help them overcome the temptations common to male/female relationships. Melody and I find these rules of restraint to be helpful boundaries that aid us to walk freely toward marriage in purity. We have also found that rules and chaperones have helped us build stronger relationships with our family members and friends. In contrast, dating couples generally become self-absorbed with each other at the expense of other indispensable relationships in their lives.

Teaching from the Negative is Okay Too
Even though I started this little essay by praising teaching from a positive/exhortation approach, the negative/warning method is also biblical. In fact, eight of the Ten Commandments begin with “thou shall not.”

Negative Law is Summarized Positively
Hundreds of years after Moses, Jesus cut to the heart and soul of the Decalogue when he summarized them into two positive commandments:

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” And, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:37-40 ESV

In conclusion, we see that rules restrain us from sinning, but every “negative” rule also has an inverse, positive command. “Thou shall not commit adultery” implies, “thou shall be faithful to your spouse” (present or future). “Thou shall not covet” is also saying, “thou shall be content.” In the same way, the nature of courtship has both positive and negative exhortations; both exhortations encourage us to walk freely toward marriage in all purity—to stay on the straight and narrow, and not fall off.

October 16, 2008

A High School Graduation

The Graduate

The Graduate


Tomorrow our brother, Calvin, will be graduating from high school. He has worked hard, and the day has finally come.

When our mom and dad got married in 1981, they said that they would never send their children to public school. A few years later, they heard of this radical new idea called home schooling. Far from being radical and novel, however, the movement was actually a reinvention of the fact and reality that throughout the pages of history, parents have been the primary educational agents in the lives of their children.

While I could continue to elaborate on my family’s homeschooling journey, I want to focus on one colossal benefit that homeschooling has wrought in our family life. Because we have been educated at home, our formal schooling has become interwoven with every other aspect of our lives. Thus, schoolwork, housework, free time, play time, our interests, others’ interests, young people, old people— all of these (and more)— have been wrapped into the warp and woof of our lives. This is true, in a way, for every person, but it has been strengthened in our homeschooling experience. Whereas others might easily compartmentalize school, home, work, play, homework— these have become blurred and intermingled for my family.

Most of all, our lives of been knit together. In our formative years, each of us children have not been plopped in different classes divided by age groups, and we have not spent hours every day away from home and parental involvement. Rather, we have spent the vast majority of our formative years with one another, under the nurture and instruction of our parents. Therefore, as I go forth from my parents’ home, I have found this to be a great blessing. I have learned to be a life-time learner. I have learned to integrate diverse people, ideas, and pursuits into a cohesive pattern, letting these people and things sharpen and shape my personality and mission.

Flexibility is another great benefit of homeschooling. Therefore, my brother is graduating in October. Since early on, my parents found it easiest to school year-round, dispersing school-breaks throughout the year rather than having a long summer holiday. Thus, Calvin’s senior year ended at the end of this summer, and tomorrow worked out as a feasible day to hold a public ceremony and celebration.

Sail into the Sunset

Sail into the Sunset

May God bless you, my brother, as you chart your course into new waters! May our Lord Jesus be with you through every stormy gale, may his almighty hand ever rest on the tiller of your soul, and may he guide you at last to your desired haven!

Sail into the Sunset copyright Jonathan Wislon, courtesy of TrekEarth.com

October 9, 2008

Mrs. Charles on Church History

“If church history be anything different from secular history, it should be the result of Christian truth speaking through the lives of Christian men; the story of the struggle between selfishness and divine love, of the Life which has pierced through and outlived the corruption and decay of States; the echo of the accents of truth and love penetrating, like musical tone, through the market din and battle tumult of the world.”
-Elizabeth Rundle Charles, author of From Dark to Dawn

October 8, 2008

Niagara Falls Photo Album

Recently I had the privilege of touring Niagara Falls with a seasoned Niagara Falls tour guide and a young earth creationist believer named Terry Kanouse. More than a dozen friends and acquaintances joined me on this trip with participants ranging from 70+ years old to 4 years! Terry was both knowledgeable and enthusiastic in his presentation, which climaxed with the Maid of the Mist boat ride below both the American and Canadian Falls. Among many informative facts Terry presented eight ways in which Niagara Falls is eroding faster than uniformitarian geologists report. The field trip was definitely worth the trip up to Niagara Falls and I look forward to doing it again sometime.

Niagara Falls

October 2, 2008

Life Chain

WRITE THIS DOWN… Sunday, October 5th tens of thousands of pro-life people will gather along main streets in more than 1,360 cities to silently PRAY for the END OF ABORTION.

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September 16, 2008

Is Palin Eligible?


Well, in his recent address at the 2008 Republican National Convention, the former New York Mayor, Rudy Giuliani threw down the gauntlet, and even though Giuliani wasn’t addressing me, I’ve taken up his challenge. Giuliani said, “How dare they question whether Sarah Palin has enough time to spend with her children and be vice president. How dare they do that.”

Mr. Giuliani, I dare.

(left to right) Palin's husband, Palin, Palin's running mate

(left to right) Palin's husband, Palin, Palin's running mate

Ever since I heard the news that Senator John McCain chose Sarah Palin as his running-mate, I’ve been shaking my head and saying, “That’s insane!” Palin is the mother of five, the youngest of which is only about five months old and has special needs, no less. Before I go further, I must clarify some things. I do not by any means support John McCain. McCain does not represent me in my convictions on political, social, or moral issues, and I am not going to vote for him in November. I know I am not alone on this; countless other conservative Christians have voiced similar sentiments, but ever since Palin came on the scene, Christians have begun to flap in the breeze.

But let’s face the issue head on, “If Sarah Palin does become the Vice President of the United States, will she have enough time to spend with her children?”

No.

Now, I don’t think you can put a qualitative figure or ratio on how much time a woman must be in the home with her children; to do so would be foolhardy. The Holy Scriptures, however, are very clear that a woman’s sphere of influence and vocation is her home (Titus 2:4-5). Indeed, the whole of the Bible is based on the affirmation, assumption, and exhortation that a woman is to be the help meet to her husband and the keeper of her home (children included).

The List

The List

While I dare to question Palin’s eligibility to be the Vice President based on her status as a mother (especially of young children), I also question Palin’s eligibility based on many other factors. But I don’t have the time or the expertize to proffer arguments on all of these other fronts. Therefore, I invite you to check out Doug Philips’ blog, and see what some other conservative Christians are thinking about Sarah Palin. Doug Philips has not only put together a list of other bloggers, but he has done so in the form of quotes and links; in this way, you can peruse these quotations or get more involved as you have time and interest.

Join me in the discussion. Is Palin eligible?

September 12, 2008

Dominican Market

I walked along the market street,
My camera wrapped around my hand;
The noises of the swift and fleet
Motos, carros, camionetas— manned
By dexterous drivers— passed me by
Unnoticed, unremembered until I try.

I peer into the shops and stalls,
Observing people, observing wares;
So much to see, to hear— but walls,
Not between vendors but in their stares,
Keep me out, though I try—
I taste and talk, but the heartbeat slips by.

I lived among dominicans,
Their capitol, one week I roamed;
A local church asked us americans,
“Come, enter our life, our church, our homes.”
Our days were long, but soon flashed by;
God forged a bond, and keep it we shall try.

S.A. Detwiler Copyright 2008

Mercado al Aire Libre

Mercado al Aire Libre

September 5, 2008

Dragon’s Domain

What is a group of dragons called?

I posed this riddle a month ago. In truth, the question itself is a bit misleading, “Do dragons even group together?” The answer plays upon that suggestion, for the answer is…

a wilderness of dragons.

I first found this phrase in a book by Tolkien, and I believe that it is actually a quote from Beowulf. As far as I can gather from my research, ‘a wilderness of dragons’ is an infrequent idiom, but it has been used by various authors.

September 5, 2008

Thyself Reckon Dead

Granite Clothed in Green

Granite Clothed in Green

Thyself reckon dead, and then thou shalt fly
Free, free, from the prison of earth to the sky!
Spring may come, but on granite will grow no green thing;
It was barren in winter, ’tis barren in spring;
And granite man’s heart is, till grace intervene,
And, crushing it, clothe the long barren with green.
When the fresh breath of Jesus shall touch the heart’s core,
It will live, it will breathe, it will blossom once more.

-Jalal-ud-Din ar-Rumi
translated by E.H. Whinfield

“Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Romans 6:11 (KJV)

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
and saves the crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18 (ESV)

I will greatly rejoice in the Lord;
my soul shall exult in my God,
for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation;
he has covered me with the robe of righteousness,
as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress
and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isaiah 61:10 (ESV)